This is a quiet nook in the corner of our newly renovated living area. I’ll do a house tour later this year.
So why financial independence and how does that relate to simple living?
I love the fact as humans, we are constantly evolving and changing. I have always had a really big thirst for knowledge, and when I am really interested in a topic, I emerge myself in all available material to learn and grow and connect with like-minded people.
I have found this is absolutely the case on my simple living journey.
First came the feeling over being overwhelmed. With five kids more than half time, a busy job, two kids with mental health issues and interests outside of work, I felt I was never on top of things and always running behind. My to do list was always longer and greater than 24 hours in any day and I never truly felt like I could sit down and relax.
My health started giving way and I realised things needed to change. So we created the year of austerity to pay down debt and not be a slave to full time employment. We achieved this goal in 2015 after some hard work and a small inheritance.
During this time, I was also organising the whole house like crazy. I thought if I made some sense of the physical chaos in my life, simplicity would descend upon our household like some kind of magic. A place for everything, everything in its place.
But of course, I organised every drawer within an inch of its life, felt only marginally less overwhelmed and realised I just needed to downsize and declutter. For a while I donated, sold and gave away stuff in my house like a possessed woman. Gumtree, eBay, Vinnes and Buy Nothing New became my best friends. We also renovated which provided a great opportunity to reassess a lot of clutter in our house. The downsizing was enormous – I stopped counting at 25000 items, and I forced myself to reassess all purchases, use up all cosmetics, audit the fridge, pantry and freezer……..
I found the two upsides of decluttering were:
- The house felt refreshed, sorted and clear of things that previously made my brain ache. I confirmed in the maximalist/minimalist debate, I’m definitely in the latter camp, although far from living out of my back pack with less then 100 items to my name. Funnily enough, the first year of our retirement David and I have decided we will go through the house and declutter again as a first priority because we can still identify many items that need to go.
- We spent so much less money following a consciously commitment to this form of living and this has enabled greater savings for our FIRE plan.
Once I discovered the FIRE community and worked out we could work less I immediately amped up our savings plans and began consuming everything I could on saving, investing and planning for an early retirement. I realised the FIRE path was really one that could really support my goals of living simply and with less stress. FIRE became the wind beneath my simplicity wings and the two goals merged into one. I reduced my working days to three a week and began living a simpler life – with a longer term financial plan.
So – in short – from overwhelm to organisation to minimalism to FIRE. I’m sure it’s such a well-worn path. With December 2020 looming, it can sometimes be a source of overwhelm all on its own, but I am looking forward to writing about our plans for our post FIRE life and all of the hope for a peaceful life it holds. For me, financial independence and simple living are inextricably linked. To live a simpler life I need to have a source of passive income to pursue the things I want to pursue – be fast when I want to be fast and slow when I want to be slow.
Are you on any of the paths to financial freedom or simple living? Have you been down a similar path?